Sunday, April 10, 2011
B7 love and Marriage
Recently, I am watching a Taiwanese drama called The Fierce Wife. It describes a special story (at least this topic seldom appear in Taiwanese drama) after the main characters got married rather than the loving story in the school or something. What’s important, it gave me some new ideas, or in other words, it changed some of my old ideas. I think the most obvious one is that, I found myself do not obey the “only love” policy as much as I thought I should do. Before I watched this drama, LOVE must be put in the first stage in marriage. Although not only some of my friends but also some elder people told me that, marriage can’t keep long only with love. I can’t agree them even look down upon them, because in my mind they just couldn’t find their Mr. /Miss. Right, yet. However, after watching The Fierce Wife, my idea changed. I know, maybe certain love can’t go into marriage for they can’t live together for a long time; while certain marriage might not need love as just their lives can engage with each other very well; of course, more or less love and marriage can be together during the rest of lives. I just don’t know how much it is. Several days ago, I called my cousin I less believe the “only love” policy now. And he was so calm and told me, “you thought too much.” Finishing the call, I realized I really did. At the age as mine, love is love, hate is hate. When I am still young, follow my heart, just do it.
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You remind me of the paragraph that we wrote in the past---how to choose a marraige partner. At that time, I thought that love is really, really essential to marriage, and I haven't changed my mind yet. I still believe, as you say, when we are still young, we should not think a lot---money, children,etc. When it comes to marriage, think love first.
ReplyDeleteSometimes,life is not the fairy tale, where the prince and princess live forever because of love.But to me, I still have the faith in love, just as you said, we are young, why not take an adventure?Follow your heart ,do it! :)
ReplyDeleteI think about love,we should have a more wide definition. actually, sometimes we love someone but we even don't know, let alone we would express our loves.
ReplyDeleteAlthough it is true that we need to focus on reality rather than fantasy, I think love is still vitial when taking about marriage. Love is also a part of the reality, isn't it?
ReplyDeleteThe love always is the topic of our blogs a. Maybe I am a little stubborn. In my opinion, the partner who accompany us to the end can hardly be the person who we love most,but the mostsuited one.
ReplyDeleteSpeaking from experience, love is definitely not the only (and probably not even the most essential) ingredient in quite a number of unions. To me though, I would rather stay single than be in a marriage of convenience.
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