Sunday, March 6, 2011

A Premarital Agreement with My Future Wife

These days, I saw an interest theme, "Would you sign a premarital agreement with your future husband or wife?" and I want to talk about this in my blog.
I approve of signing the premarital agreement with my future wife. For one thing, premarital agreement contributes to solidify the marriage and promote goodwill as between spouses. Premarital agreement clear and define the right and obligation so that couple will go along with each other well by undertaking their own duty according to the premarital agreement. When couple quarrels, they can also refer to the premarital agreement in that they can shoulder the responsibility of the issue calmly. For another thing, signing a premarital agreement is rather rational. Marriage is an advanced form of love and legally certifying ownership of wealth before getting married represents a high degree of rationality on the part of those getting married. Actually premarital agreements are common in western counties and in economically developed regions. 80% of complaints related to divorce are associated with financial disputes, which have delays divorce and cause people great pain. If couples sign premarital agreements, people will not feel so exhausted when they get divorced.

8 comments:

  1. This is a really interesting issue, I think. Every coin has two sides, the agreement will dispel some variances whereas it will show that the couple are not ready to change the relationship into marriage yet as well.

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  2. What you say is kind of logic.However, personally speaking, signing a premarital agreement with your spouse is still a little wierd.To some extent, this behaviour shows that you do not trust your parter.

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  3. I think it is very interesting that you want to sign the agreement with you future wife. I think the only thing which can tie the two together is love, but the agreement just make the abstract word concret.

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  4. It is quite interesting if you want to sign a agreement with your future wife. Actually, I have heard that Ireland has such interesting rules which require the lovers sign a agreement involving the length of the marriage before they get married. However, it also can be a trouble,correct?

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  5. I strongly agree with Ninja, because I always believe that anything can happen and change everything. You may run into a dilema when you discover that you and your spouse are not a proper couple. With a premarital agreement, I think every problem can be solved effciently.

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  6. For me, I won't make a premanrital agreement. I think it will cut down the love. But in the modern society, maybe it's the new tendency which the world need.

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  7. Er, I always think that this kind of agreemant only exist in the dramas. I have no idea if I will make it before I get married. I really hope that we don't need the premarital agreement in the future because it makes our marridges become a little strange.

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  8. im guessing i dont have to make such an agreement because im not the rich sort with a lot to give away in the first place!

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