I am sure most of you have been punished by your parents when you are a child. Similarly, when I was a little boy, I was often penalized for my “bad” habit.
Every time before having a meal, I would like to stick my chopsticks into the bowl without any reason. However, my father always put my chopsticks on the table and shouted at me. I really did not know why I can’t do that, so I just did it again even though I would be punished.
One day, my father brought me to a formal banquet. From force of a habit, I inserted my chopsticks in the rice bowl again. Then, he glowered at me and a rageful expression in his face to appoint me to move the chopsticks away. I was reluctant to do what he wanted.
When we backed to home, he shouted at me and warmed that if I do it again, he may never bring me to someone else’s house. I cried loudly asking why I can’t. “it is a Chinese taboo because inserting chopsticks into the bowl shows someone in your family passes away”, he answered, ”Remember you can’t do that again or else I will be disappointed for you”.
After that experience , I pay close attention to our traditional customs which is integral part of our life.
I know it is a superstition that if one just does like you, he may attract a ghost or evil or so.
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear that you learned this custom the hard way. It would be better if the parents give some explaination rather than just order their children do as they say.
ReplyDeleteIf you don't use chopsticks, you can get rid of this "bad habit".haha.Actually, I haven't used chopsticks since I came to Singapore..
ReplyDeleteSounds like you have a rebellious streak in you, like me: I understand how you needed an explanation as to why it was not allowed before you would stop doing it.
ReplyDeletePlease remember to read your blog over again after writing it and watch out for spelling and tense errors. Think you meant ' When we went home...'
By the way, I'm sorry I took so long to reply to your blogs, my computer did not allow me to comment for some reason. I had to use another computer to post these comments.
ReplyDeleteOk, I 'll pay more attention to my spelling and tense.Thanks.
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