In the Chinese internet world, there is a saying：A man who is playing dota is the same as a woman who wears silk stockings, because both of them are lonely person.
Maybe you do not know what is dota. It’s a computer game which now is one of the most popular games in China. The persons who play it ranges from primary students to workers. In that game, they can enjoy a perception of success through using their role to kill other roles. The more they kill, the higher score they will get. Why did I say those who plays dota must be lonely? That’s because in that game, you need to learn how to cooperate with others, share with others. Without team work, you cannot finish your mission. Sometimes, you even can find your partner through this game, because not only men play dota.
I used to play this game a lot, and I concede I used to feel lonely. In that game, we can possess a feeling of united. You could learn how to help others, and make these experience available in our daily life. Therefore we will not feel lonely any more.
I enjoy playing dota with my friends, but I will not indulge in this game. Due to I know which point should I locate in, and I believe you too, right.
POSTSCRIPT:
I came out with this idea because I extremely do not know what to write in my blog until I saw the ten students of SM2 playing dota in our canteen this night. Playing games is just for entertainment. Too much of that will damage our health, right?
I think though we can get entertainment from games,if we can't rein ourselves,we'd better not to attempt the games.
ReplyDeleteAgree with you. Our friends in real life are those who make us feel alive.
ReplyDeleteA good solution to overcome loneliness. A game that involves teamwork should be good. Of course one must not go overboard with any activity-that could become an addiction.
ReplyDeletei don't play dota. i still feel lonely at times. i will miss my parents and my friends.i hope you can get through your loneliness.
ReplyDeleteAre you still lonely?:>. I do not think so.
ReplyDeleteOn last summer vacation, I played computer games with my friends at least three times a week. I do not think it is because of loneliness, but for the reason that we want to talk with each other and have fun together. Therefore I agree with your idea that we learn how to cooperate with others. Since I have been aboard for two months, I desire for a chance to play games with my friends in China, not for dealing with loneliness, but I want to "meet" them again.