Last night, one of my roommates had a quarrel with the aunties in Eton Hall. At first, he was going to have...just like a negotiate with them. Because his group has to go to the faculty of science to attend classes everyday, which is really a torment because they have to take a NUS internal shuffle after they get off the school bus! So he was to ask the aunties for a permission to take the school bus for the SM2 students---everyday their buses leave with seats vacant, but we are just not permitted to get on! I don't know how come it happened, but it turned out that the auntie said"shut up and get out", then my roommate got utterly provoked, he slammed out without saying a word.
Afterwards, he regreted about what he had done. He said he had tried his best to leave a good impression on everybody, including the aunties, and he thought he managed until yesterday. "I am not like that at all, that's not me...But when the rage came, I just forgot everything."
I know him well and I can guarantee that he is a kind, considerate guy with EVERYTHING I own and I understand him. When I get angry, I will also behave terribly. I don't know if this is a kind of character proving people differ from each other or this is just a bad behavior. But I try not to be angry with others, or I'll create lots of problems. I hope we all are happy everyday. Farewell to rages.
He is such an enthusiastic and energetic person.Honestly,I have admiration for his courage.
ReplyDeleteAll right, fury is a thing that we all cannot control. We must learn how to deal with all kinds of communications with different people. It is really a problem for us to build a good image in public.
ReplyDeletewhat a poor guy!i hope he will make peace with the aunties soon.everyone has two sides.it's no doubt that fury is a normal feeling of human-being.sometimes,we need to drain ourselves.i see it is not a big problem we get angry,but maybe saying sorry is a necessary thing to make peace.i believe after a period of time,everything will get peace.
ReplyDeleteRage comes to us unexpectedly and is not something that we might be able to control consciously. I've always believed that a better way to be 'free' of rage is to *not* be in situations where tempers are expected.
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